Are you interested in being tied up or otherwise restrained (bondage)? And is the type of punishment you're interested in physical (e.g. [related_post] Seeing as you mentioned that your partner isn't into hitting you, I assume you enjoy pain. If you're submissive, are you also a masochist?
And in Part III, I’ll examine the sexually passive men who paradoxically and simultaneously experience the pain and pleasure of being dominated.
Part II will address the lesser known Cuckoldress and Hot Wife.
Although the top usually is the dominant lead, it is not always so…
Sometimes the dominant “tops” the submissive expressly the way the submissive wishes.
Tragically, a vast number of them will even tell you that they want real life, but have no intention of ever meeting you because they are married, in a long term relationship, or simply not interested in anything more than playing a D/s relationship game online. Great idea, but it won't make you feel any better when you find out the Dom of your dreams actually lives in Estonia with his wife and five children and had no intention whatsoever of actually loving you or meeting you. There is nothing wrong with being new, but you must be aware that you are responsible for your own D/s education.
I've also heard my share of stories about that great "Dom" turning out to be a female. I have yet to meet an obviously new "Dom" who is willing to admit that he knows next to nothing.
For example, a self-identified cuckoldress brought her husband to treatment because “he had the nerve” to cheat on her with another woman.
A passive male cuckold insisted on marital counseling because his wife took a lover that he hated.
I’ll admit that while I’ve seen my share of cuckoldresses and hot wives over the years, I’ve only treated a handful of dominatrices.
One dominatrix wanted out of the field, while the others had some difficulty separating their professional and personal personas.
There are thousands of men out there with the word "Master" in their name. 1) 99.9% of all men online who say they are Dominants, are not. Make sure he isn't hiding anything the best you can.